American actor Val Kilmer has been a Hollywood star since his role as Tom Kazansky in 1986’s “Top Gun.” He has also starred in many other famous Hollywood titles like “Tombstone,” “Batman Forever,” and “Heat.”
While he was focused on his career, Kilmer always made time to care for his children and even slept uncomfortably so he could care for his newborn daughter. Now that daughter is all grown up and loves her father very much.
Mercedes Kilmer, now 31, recently shared a photo on her Instagram story that warmed the hearts of fans worldwide. In the snap, Mercedes, her brother Jack, her father, and Britney Spears are smiling at the camera. The Kilmer family is ordinarily very private, which made this snap doubly as special for fans.
Why Did Val Kilmer Sleep on The Hospital Floor After His Daughter’s Birth?
Kilmer and his wife, Joanne Whalley, tied the knot in 1988 after they met on the “Willow” movie set. They went on to star in “Kill Me Again” together a year after they exchanged vows. By 1991, they had begun expanding their family.
In 1991, Kilmer and Whalley welcomed their daughter, Mercedes. Four years later, the family expanded again with the addition of the couple’s son, Jack. A year later, in 1995, the couple divorced.
While their marriage didn’t last, they remained friendly and worked together again. Their love for their children remained unchanged. In his memoir, Kilmer shared what it was like for him to become a father. Describing his daughter, the actor wrote, “Precious angel, gift of God,” saying his life changed entirely after her birth.
Kilmer also told the story of the lengths he went just to be with his daughter from the day she was born. He had asked the nurse where his bed was and the nurse thought he was joking because no father had ever requested to remain at the hospital with his wife and newborn child. When the nurse realized Kilmer was serious, he was provided a foam mat and a used blanket.
The actor placed the makeshift bed on the hospital’s linoleum floor and spent the night there as his wife and new daughter slept comfortably in their bed and crib. The actor confessed that he got the impression people felt all the things he wanted to do were women’s work. He wanted to bathe his daughter, feed her, cuddle her, and sing her sweet lullabies.
From the moment he laid eyes on Mercedes, the pair have shared a close bond. When asked what brought them closer, Kilmer mentioned their love for animals and nature. The father-daughter duo love riding horses and even took horse jumping lessons together when Mercedes was a little girl.
The pair also love to hike and look at Native American rock art. When not out in nature, they would also do indoor things like shop for clothes together. Kilmer also admitted they’re both stubborn but they also have a zest for life that allows them to find joy in even the simplest moments. He enjoyed watching his daughter grow with this characteristic.
Kilmer also talked about how imaginative Mercedes was when she was a little girl. He once shared an anecdote from when Mercedes was just a toddler that exhibited this. Mercedes was offered an apple and began telling her parents the “elaborate and intricate” way she wanted them to prepare it for her before they realized she was playing a prank on them. Kilmer admitted it was hilarious.
When Mercedes was asked what made her relationship with her father special, she also mentioned loving being outdoors with her father. She shared:
“We would sort of play hide-and-seek on horses, and I would come back frequently with shredded pants after a misadventure. We also loved to go camping in Ojai, California. He would make my brother and me go camping both in the rain and snow.”
Mercedes also shared that she and her father have similar humor and enjoy observing passersby. The pair both write to express their creativity and expand themselves as people.
How Does Mercedes Stay Close to Her Dad After Cancer Damaged His Voice?
Although Mercedes and her father share a lovely bond, life has not always been easy for the pair. Kilmer was diagnosed with throat cancer in 2015, and doctors had to treat him with chemotherapy, radiation, and a tracheostomy.
All of these medical procedures damaged the actorl’s vocal cords, and his speaking voice was permanently altered. However, this didn’t change Mercedes’ relationship with her beloved father.
Talking about what it was like for them dealing with her father’s diagnosis, Mercedes said his prognosis did not look good initially but that her father is physically and mentally resilient. Mercedes felt inspired by how her father dealt with his illness and admitted that he had even been joking while in the hospital. However, Mercedes admitted:
“It’s really difficult to go through that with a parent and also to go through it with someone in the public eye.”
Mercedes believes that when her father is at his best, he’s an intelligent, funny, and talkative man. However, at his worst, he is quick to argue. Although cancer affected how he communicates, Mercedes confirmed that he had found ways to communicate effectively.
Kilmer’s daughter believes that their relationship is so special because her father is a unique person, which has allowed them to remain friends throughout the years. They now live close to one another in LA.