In an excerpt from emmy magazine’s June issue shared by People, Donnie first recalled: “At the first dinner scene, I had to be fully committed to this character and who he was and his thoughts on the situation he was dealing with — and be willing to turn that dinner table upside down,” before noting: “And to do that with Tom Selleck sitting at the head of the table? He’s an icon.”
He also remembered the responsibility he felt to sticking to that promise, even if it meant having to give contrasting opinions to the writers. Recounting a moment where he offered some feedback to them early on, he shared: “I had to make the commitment to go there with him. I could not hold anything back, because if I didn’t do it in the pilot episode, I wouldn’t be able to do it down the road.”
Tom similarly expressed how much weight the Sunday dinner scenes hold for him as an actor, noting that he’s not so much focused on his lines but rather the “subtext,” and to properly emit what the audience already knows the characters are internally going through.
He explained: “Audiences don’t care about the words, they want to see the subtext. The family dinners are loaded with subtext, and the audience is in on it because they’ve seen what the characters are going through.”
Donnie then noted that the scenes have served as a true bonding experience both on-screen and off-screen, and that overtime it has made them operate like a real family.
“There’s a genuine affection when we get together for dinner scenes,” he shared, emphasizing: “There’s a genuine gratitude at that table. If anyone’s struggling, by the end of that dinner scene they’re back to being aware of how fortunate we all are.”
Donnie further said that not only are the Reagan family “fortunate to be together on Sundays and to be safe, to have made it through another week of a very dangerous job,” but also the cast “is reminded of how fortunate we are as actors.”
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He endearingly maintained: “It’s an incredible blessing to have that dinner scene as a check-in every week, much like the Reagans do, fictionally.”
“For us to have that in real life, it’s a pretty spectacular thing — and I don’t think we’d be here 14 seasons without it.”